When a friend has an idea, thinks it's a good idea, but causes mental/emotional harm (not violence) to the other, that is a deliberate fuck up while trying to hide and cover their ass, and nothing else.
Gotta wonder how the friend can possibly fix that type of fucking up.
I sure as hell don't have the answer for his fucked idea.
I will say, sir you have A LOT of explaining to do first and foremost before an apology can ever occur.
Good luck to your life of deceit and lies to anyone else you decide you want to bring your so called "good idea in your own mind" to.
I feel for your next victim and the hell they are about to go through.